Good Morning! It's a Beautiful, Beautiful Day to be alive, and I thank God for it! I pray that everyone has an amazing day as we're a day away from the WEEKEND! I pray that you have a great day and a great weekend and know that GOD has so much in store for you! Don't let anyone tell you what you can not do! Know that God is with you and able to help you accomplish all of your dreams! God bless!
It's interesting following people of all ages on Twitter and reading their relationship stories. There are so many people who have went through so many ups and downs in relationships and in this thing called love, you wonder, what in the World is love today? I started some tweets where I wanted to know did Women even desire to be married anymore? The majority that answered said "YES", and even in a Tweet when I asked "What do people want in relationships?" a lot of the answers were the same. "Love, Honesty, Trust, Companionship, Friendship." Things we all desire, you know? The thing that gets to me is that so many 20 somethings literally almost call themselves THROUGH with love before they even hit 30! SHOOT, a lot of people have been through the ringer with so-called love and situationships so many times before 25, they don't hardly trust anyone anymore and have all kinds of insecurities. Even with myself and dating, I've dated many Women that about time they are almost 30 or hit 30, a lot of them are so broken, that it's hard for them to even love a Man properly because they've been hurt so many times before. And, don't get me wrong, this goes for many men too. So how does all of this come about and can true love happen, even after all the ups and downs of being hurt over and over again?
A lot of people don't realize that in our teens and 20's, what we really want in love, no one really has. We just call it love because we've been through with some people for so long, that we just say that we love them because of all the things we have been through. I threw another tweet out there about how can people be with someone 3-4-5 or more years and it just end up in NOTHING? A lot of people end up more broken than anything after those long relationships. I asked "Don't people know what it's going to be after at least 2 years?" "why prolong something that you know in the end is going to be nothing?" A lot of us are calling things love that really isn't. What's crazy is, we'll be with someone for years, never truly love them, then meet someone for a few months, and we'll be totally head over heels for them! What I want to make sure people do not do is waste their years on someone who isn't even looking to marry them! We do that so much in our 20's, thinking "THIS IS IT!" when the majority of us at that age aren't prepared for anything long term and are playing and cheating on each other. How can a person love someone and know they're cheating on them? Just be with them for YEARS, because it's comfortable or they are use to them, but they know they aren't even getting treated like they deserve? Forgiving people time after time and the other person shows over and over again that they truly do not love them. That's what keeps people so hurt for so many years, that when someone finally does want to give them their all, they're too hurt to accept it. See the Red Flags and know what you desire and want to have EARLY! If you're in your 20's, JUST DATE! If you are going to be in a real relationship, ask the real questions and don't stay in something that's not going anywhere positive or making you better. You don't need to be into anything deep, especially if it's someone who doesn't even have their stuff together to make you a long term lover! We need to stop playing with ourselves and calling things love that it's not! Lets do better folks and know that we deserve so much better!
READ...SHARE...LOVE! - PROFESSOR JT