Good Morning Everyone! It's a Terrific Tuesday and I'm glad about it! We're in the FULL SWING of registration at my college and it's keeping me MAD BUSY! I love it! Too me, THIS is the most wonderful time of the year! Prayers out to all involved in the protest and madness still that is in Ferguson, MO! Bless all the people out there and may PEACE be brought to that area soon in Jesus Name! God bless everyone on today and know that GOD has something great in store for you REAL SOON!
As we date, we start to realize we seem to attract ourselves and the same type of people over and over again. I was talking with a friend of mine last week who told me that every Woman has some crazy in her. It just takes the right situation and sometimes the wrong Man to pull it out. How is it though that it seems like sometimes, some Women get in the same situation again and again the it's just a different male face that keeps pulling out the same crazy in them? Or what about Women. Women who say they want a Strong Man, but end up with some crying, whiny Dude who is more emotional and sensitive than she is. How do we keep saying we want THIS in relationships, but we end up with the same mess?
There is to me a Spiritual Side to relationships that sometimes we don't acknowledge and see. That's why sometimes we like someone and can't really put our finger on it, we just know we're attracted to them. We don't even really like all of how they look on the outside, but something draws us too them. How many times have we been with someone and everyone KNOWS they're not your type and even ask "What made you end up with THEM?" You truly think about it and say "I don't even know, we just CLICKED!" Now, clicking with someone is great, but a lot of times, we're not necessarily clicking to the right stuff! Some of us Men are attracted to the Crazy Chick! Some of the Women are attracted to the Sensitive Guy! We know we don't want that in relationships from our past ones, but we always seem to get in relationships with the same type of crazy, sensitive people. We literally will put away the person we know deep down that we want and need because we can't get off of this attraction for a person we can't control who we know isn't good for us. We have to be very careful, because even if we make this type of person we don't really like or need a parent of one of our children, they go from getting on our nerves to we just can't stand them period! We need to take more time as well with people when we're dating because if we know the type of person we're attracting, before we jump in the sheets with them, we need to make sure we're not making the same mistake. Be careful folks! Cuffing Season is on the way and we don't want to get caught up with the wrong people who will set us back emotionally and possibly even financially 3-4-5 years!
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