Good Morning Everyone! It's Summer...BUT it still feels like SPRING?!? Cool Temperatures, Rainy Days! OH WELL! I'll take it! Hold off on the heat and running my Air Conditioning for as LONG as we can! I hope everyone is geared up and ready for an AMAZING 4th of July weekend that is up and coming! GO FOR IT! I don't know what that means but I feel that in my Spirit for someone. Make July the MONTH YOU GO FOR IT! Your Dreams, Your Passions, Your Heart's Greatest Desires! Put God First! Go For Your Dreams! Watch God Give You The Desires Of Your HEART! God Bless Everyone On Today!
I like to ask the TOUGH QUESTIONS when it comes to dating. One question I like to ask from time to time to Women is "What if you don't get married?" I think that this is something a lot of Women don't EVER think is going to happen to them. What do you mean Professor? WELL, I'm glad that you asked! A lot of Women have a dream of this PERFECT GUY for them! NOW, lets be 100% honest, because I am an honest blog writer. 9 out of 10 Women probably NEVER get their envisioned PERFECT GUY! Even if they DO, there is STILL something wrong with him to a point a Woman probably needs to get rid of him before he drives her CRAZY! So, if a Woman does get married, there is a high chance in some areas, some things she had to settle for. He might not be the HEIGHT she wanted, she got dark skin, she prefers light skin. She wanted a Thug and got a Nerd. Either way, SHE GOT HER MAN! So, what about the Millions of other Women who are Single out there? Will they ever get A MAN PERIOD? Some Women are so determined to find love, that they will make ever effort they can to go get a Man. Forget that Man meeting her half way. OH NO! If he even shows a LITTLE BIT of interest, that Woman will travel the WORLD to get to him! He may be looking at her likes she's CRAZY! "WHAT ARE YOU DOING HERE?!?!" he may say. Is the effort from the Woman ever WORTH IT? How many Women you know have got all out of their character to go see about a Man? DID IT WORK? Are we too the point where a lot of these Woman are honestly making all these efforts FOR NOTHING? Are Women chasing A GHOST who they think could be their Husband one day?
I want to see every Woman get the desire of her heart. We do have to be realistic to the point of if a Woman is not flexible in what she wants or the type of Man she could be with, then she might be looking for a needle in a haystack. It hurts really bad to see a Woman go to the ends of the Earth for a Man who can't even put his phone down off Social Media and texting long enough to walk out the front door to see about her. LADIES...MARRIAGE MAY NOT HAPPEN FOR YOU! Some Woman want that MAN, and Family, and BIG WEDDING for all her friends to be in SO BAD, they'll do whatever it takes to get a Man to make it all happen. If a Man is WORTH IT, SURE, GO FOR HIM! Now, I'm not saying get down on one knee and propose! BUT, put the best YOU out there and if it's meant to be between you two, then it will happen. There are a lot of scheming Men out here Ladies, you all have to be VERY CAREFUL! Dudes that will talk a big game behind phone and computer screens, but it's a totally different story when you see and meet them in person. I try to tell EVERY WOMAN...DO YOUR RESEARCH ON THE MAN YOU WANT TO BE WITH! Ask the hard questions EARLY! You have to realize, you don't want to be trying to start a life with a person that has a whole another life with another Woman.
And Finally, LADIES, if you don't get married, IT'S NOT THE END OF THE WORLD! You have to be flexible! You might have to date a Man outside of your race. You may want Micheal Ealy...but is there anything wrong with having a David Beckham? Plus, GET OUT MORE! Get off the internet and hit up your city scene a bit! Even with that, YOU MIGHT HAVE TO SET UP THAT ONLINE DATING ACCOUNT! See what is out there every way that you can Ladies! Just don't chase ANY MAN! Pursue...YES! Chase...NO! Know that you are Queens and KINGS GO AFTER QUEENS! Not the other way around! Don't subject yourselves to humiliation Ladies trying to chase a GHOST who you already have considered to be your husband in your minds. Enjoy your LIVES, make your MONEY, take care of your COMMUNITIES AND CHILDREN. Know a Good Man always finds a Woman's Work and Worth SEXY! READ...SHARE...LOVE! - PROFESSOR JT