IT'S GOING TO BE...ALRIGHT!

Good Morning Everyone! I'm in the office for one more day then a VACA IS ON THE WAY! I need it, thank God for it! I pray that everyone has a wonderful Memorial Day weekend and I'll be gone for a WEEK and I'll see you ALL on next Tuesday! Thank you so much to all my Readers and make sure that you all keep updated on what's going on with Professor JT!

PROFESSOR JT IS ALL OVER THE WEB! 

Make sure you check me out on Twitter @THEPROFESSOR_JT, check out my "Passion Into Action" Articles on blacklifecoaches.net Check out my Book, "The Art Form Of P.A.S.S.I.O.N." which you can find on Amazon and Barnes & Noble.com 

http://www.amazon.com/The-Form-P-A-S-S-I-O-N-John-Turner/dp/1462663230/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1369142639&sr=8-1&keywords=the+art+form+of+p.a.s.s.i.o.n. 

I have been BLESSED w/ being nominated for The A BLACK MAN CAN Award in Higher Education! Make sure you go and VOTE for Professor JT! Vote End May 31st! goo.gl/N8qLg 

FINALLY, you can check out my Podcast "THE PROFESSED WORD" along with my co-host Ms. Word @adub4spirit on Twitter, every Tuesday night at 8PM EST. TONIGHT, we have a little Comedy Relief coming through to help you start out your Memorial Day Weekend on the right foot! Comedians Will Stomp & Jamille Harley come through to give us some good laughs! CHECK US OUT TONIGHT THEPROFESSEDWORD.COM 

My mind is already in Vacation mode, so even though I'm at work, I already feel like I'm still in the bed sleeping in! LOL! I didn't have much to talk about today. I did want to send out prayers to all effected by the Tornadoes in Oklahoma on yesterday and Lord send them the relieve and help that they need in Jesus Name! I really wanted to encourage someone and everyone that was going through hard times right now, because I know I'm not the only one. Sometimes we look at the life of people like they have it all together, but actually, they are hurting emotionally, financially, spiritually, physically. Some of us are really good at not letting people know it. We don't like to say anything, because when you look at all that some of us have, you would say "They have NOTHING to complain about, they have some great things going on in their lives." Which is true, no one should every complain about anything if you really think about all the Lord has done for us, but we all need prayer, a talking too, & support from time to time. I just want to encourage someone today that you are not alone and even through this hard season, things are about to turn around for the better for you, & everything, after a while, is going to be ALRIGHT!

Some of us have gotten down to our last dollars, our last bit of food, our last ends, but it's GOD that always brings us out! It's only a TEST we're going through, that with a little patience & faith, it's all going to be OVER, REAL SOON! God says in His Word that He will be with us always (Matt 28:20) The Word of God also says in Psalms 37:25 "I have never seen the righteous forsaken, nor His seed begging bread." If God brought us out and through before, He can do it again. God just wants to see where our Faith is. Are we continuing to grow in Him? When stuff gets rough, do we run away from God, or run towards God? At the end of the day, we have to realize all of this mess and drama is just leading more to a Greater Glory that He has in store for us. Right before the ending COULD COME, God swoops down and saves us, and creates for us a New Beginning. SO NO WORRIES! That money is going to come, that new job is going to come, that healing is going to come. That blessing that YOU NEED, God already knows what you need before you need it, and it's on the way! God bless everyone! Have a wonderful Memorial Day weekend and you are all in my prayers and know that GOD has a Blessing on the way for you! READ...SHARE...LOVE! - PROFESSOR JT

Does A Black Man's Success = A White Woman's Prize?

Good Morning Everyone! Back in the saddle, but only for 2 days this week and I'M HAPPY ABOUT IT! Extending my Memorial Day weekend and I hope everyone is gearing up for a great one as well! GREAT THINGS are on the way for you People of God! Do not let ANYTHING stop you from accomplishing your dreams and know that GREATER THINGS are on the way for you! God Bless & I love all my readers and thanks for everyone following and supporting Professor JT!

I was in another DEEP conversation on Twitter, as I usually am with some of my Followers about Interracial Dating. I was going in to see how many of my Black Female Followers would date a well off, White Man. A lot of them surprisingly to me said that they WOULD! All though I STILL don't ever see it happening, because Black Women be DOWN for some Black Men, it was interesting to hear that if a Black Woman had a GREAT White Candidate as a Mate, that they would entertain the idea of being with them. On the other hand, the majority of Black Men have NO PROBLEM Dating a Black Woman. Not to say they are not successful Black Women, but some of the drama Black Woman come with, some successful Black Men do not want to deal with. I personal have dated White Women, but I could never see myself marrying one. I just personally do not want to deal with the looks & the words. That's just me, don't judge me. And it's not to say that White Women do not come with Drama. In different circles, sometimes when you're a Successful Black Man, the only Women that get where you are, where you are going, and what you are doing in your life is a White Woman. For a White Woman, this is a WIN WIN! You have a Successful Black Man & then you get MAD ATTENTION, from Blacks & Whites apart! So does being a Successful Black Man in 2013 = A White Woman taking a prized possession for themselves & out of the Black Community?

Since I have been divorced, I have become "THE GREAT SINGLE HOPE" to my Brother & Step Brother! All they want to know is who I'm dating & what is it going to turn into? I'll be honest, I tend to move a little FAST in relationships, so I'm actually trying to slow down a tad. But the more I do, the more I'm faced with options, and too many options as a Single Person is a BAD THING! Black Women & White Women! Then I look at Mario Williams, the All-Pro Defensive End for the Buffalo Bills who is in a huge dispute with his Ex Fiancee who refuses to give him back the $700,000 Engagement Ring that he gave her. Let me tell you something, you put that much money on a Black Woman's hand, she is not going ANYWHERE! 

Yes, there are positives with dating & marrying White Women as a Black Man. You may get introduced to some Circles you may not ever see with a Black Woman. BUT, when something goes down as a Black Man, NO ONE, and I mean, NO ONE is going to stick by you better than a BLACK WOMAN! White Women, the majority of the time are GONE! And they'll be all in a Black Man's face when they're on top of the World, but let something go down or he puts his hands on her. You would think that Black Man is a straight up CRIMINAL & he could be a Doctor, Lawyer, Engineer, something prestigious. Whatever the case may be, when the Law sees a Black Man with a White Woman, no matter who that Black Man is, he is STILL A BLACK MAN & that is still a WHITE WOMAN & whatever she says GOES! Black Men, we have to be MO CAREFUL!! (in my Katt Williams voice) And once you have a Child with a White Woman, you might as well get your wallet ready because trust & believe, if you EVER get a divorce, you are paying for that child! Black Woman will let a Brother SLIDE sometimes, not white Women! Black Men, take your TIME in choosing a Mate. YES, there are still some great Woman out there, but do your homework and see what that Woman is talking about & where she is coming from! We get BLINDED when we first start dating on looks & status, but don't let that keep you from getting to know the Woman on the INSIDE! Some are there for love, some have other plans and motives! BE CAREFUL!

READ...SHARE...LOVE! - PROFESSOR JT

A GREAT FRIDAY MESSAGE: HOLD ON! A CHANGE IS GOING TO COME!

Good Morning Everyone! It's warm, it's Friday, and the weekend is upon us! I pray that everyone has a wonderful weekend. I'm excited only have 2 days of work next week and it's chill time for ME! God is Good, Life is God! I pray that everyone has safe travels where ever you go for Memorial Day Weekend & enjoy LIFE TODAY! You only get one! Enjoy life to the FULLEST!

If you're like me, in a lot of ways, you are waiting on GOD TO MOVE! And when I say waiting, I mean waiting because without THIS MOVE from God, it may be a little difficult to make it & do the things that you want to do. God has never let you down, but this move is stretching your faith in Him. It gets so hard sometimes, because it just seems like stuff works out and moves so much quicker for others. You're not jealous or envious, God has been Good & has always been good to you. But you just know when THIS BLESSING COMES, it will put you on a great path of success for you future. So I wanted to encourage someone today & let you know that God is on the job & HOLD ON, your change is on the way!

I am reminded about Job when I think about someone waiting on a CHANGE. The Man lost everything, except his life and wife and was tremendously blessed! The Man struggled within himself "Why me Lord?" rebuking his existence and the day he was even born. But one thing Job never gave up on, he NEVER gave up on God! Even when his friends and wife told him to give up on God, Job NEVER gave up on God. I want to encourage someone today...DO NOT GIVE UP ON GOD! It's so easy to go back to the way of making money that we were use too. It's so easy to go back to the Ex or Date a Random who doesn't appreciate us & doesn't give us that love we deserve. It's easy to walk away from that job where we aren't making the money that we want and aren't appreciated or moving forward like we want. But I'm speaking LIFE into someone RIGHT NOW, DO NOT GIVE UP ON GOD! Pray, Fast, keep in your Word of God, keep your eye on the prize & your dreams. It gets HARD being Single, being Broke, sitting in a job that it's not your dream, the money you want to make, or what you want to do. But stay focused and keep on building up YOU! Keep getting education, keep loving on yourself & others around you, along with God, keep saving money and investing in positive things. CHANGE IS GOING TO COME! Stay focused in the Lord & what you want to make happen in your life. If you stay consistent, it will HAPPEN! God Bless everyone today & know that the Lord has a blessing on the way for you! 

READ...SHARE...LOVE! - Professor JT

IN RELATIONSHIPS, DOES BODY COUNT AND PAST SEXUAL EXPERIENCES REALLY MATTER?

Good Morning Everyone! Super Pumped another weekend is upon us! It's finally, thank the LORD, finally starting to feel like Spring is here & Summer is right around the corner. Hot Summer Nights, I'M READY FOR YOU! It's crazy! I went from on Monday evening having on the Heat with temps in the 30's to Wednesday evening having to turn on the air because the temperature was in the 80's! GOOD GOD ALMIGHTY! Let me get ready because JESUS is on the way for sure! LOL! God Bless & everyone have a wonderful, wonderful day!

We live in a day and a World where we all want a good relationship. But no one is an ANGEL out here in the these streets. It's getting WARMER & when the Heat Rises, so does people's Sexual Feelings! Someone has messed around with someone else & that's just a fact. Mary was the ONLY VIRGIN & you may not have had Intercourse, but people these days have done something to get their Sexual Drive taken care of! And everyone may not have all the kids to show their evidence of them messing around, but you can always tell when SOMEONE has a bit of a FREAKY SIDE! There are a lot of people who will say "Well, what I did was in my past, and what I do now with mine is my business!" OK, so what if you current ask you "SO, how many sexual partners have YOU HAD?" NOW, the question can be BROADENED! In Sexual Partners, we could have never had intercourse with certain people, but it could have been all oral! HEY, this is a REAL TALK BLOG, so lets talk about it. Don't be fooled by these Good, Holy, Church Girls & Boys, who when they were in college were at every Frat party laid up with entire Fraternities. OHH, how those Women love those Pretty Boy Kappas! LOL! But honestly, you are ready to settle down with someone & when you ask them about their past sexual experiences, they get DEFENSIVE! But then when you go out with them, they seem to know A LOT of people of the opposite sex and they give them that look of LUST every time. You notice it, and even see glimmers of it when you two are together. DANG, this person is a FREAK, how did you LEARN all of this and who were you learning it WITH? Does Sexual Partner Body Count REALLY MATTER AT ALL when pursuing a relationship?

There are some people that are good about hiding their past sexual experiences. But there are others where you just KNOW! Their Sexual Attraction and Passion is just SUPER HIGH! They may not be a Hoe, but they sure have some HOE TENDENCIES! What's interesting is this may not be as big of a deal when it comes to Women asking Men, which in all honesty IT SHOULD BE! TRUST ME LADIES, I know some dudes, well, lets say WE TALK and when you are reaching in the 70, 80, 90 number in Sexual Number Body Count, you better THINK TWICE about making that your Man! Athletes, Greeks, Rich Boys, Entertainers, they can get some drawls & they can get a lot. But for Men, we honestly LIKE TO KNOW! As I said before, some, you can honestly tell. Ok, she wasn't passing out her body to everyone on campus when she was in school. But some Women, OH BOY! They have Sex just as frequently as some DUDES! For some people it's not an emotional thing, it's more a control/action thing to them. They just love the experience, while others know it's that connect with person, after person, after person that makes them not have Sex as frequently. Honestly, I feel the Spiritual Connection is REAL when it comes to Sex. Have Sex with someone who has a High Body Count, you will feel some kind of DIFFERENT when you get done! 

If the amount of sexual partners does not matter to you, then cool! But don't say that and then see the looks your partner gets when two are out and wonder "OK, maybe I NEED to know this!" Everyone I feel has had a Sexual Season! A time where you just was a little bit more promiscuous that other times in your life. Where that sexual count may have skyrocketed over a period of time. Mine was between my last year of Undergrad and my completion of Graduate School after I broke up with my Ex-Fiancee in College. It could have been just a Rebound Trip or myself just excited to be Single all over again. Race, Height, Body Size, nothing really mattered to me, I was ON ONE at that period and time. It wasn't until I had my daughter about 4 years later that I was like "OK, I need to calm my Happy Self Down because I do not want another one of these!" (kids) We all have those moments but we have to have a time where we get our body under control and realize what Sex really means. It's suppose to be in a caring, loving relationship, not just done sporadically with every person we see. Some people may think different, but Kids, STD's, AIDS/HIV ARE REAL! That's why you have to ask the questions EARLY! No more just jumping in the bed and asking questions later. Have you been TESTED and what were the test results?!?! Sex should be fun and adventurous. But the safer you make it, the better it can be! So watch that Body Count and how quick you are to add another body TO YOUR COUNT! It could be the reason that you are single and being counted out of so many long term relationships! READ...SHARE...LOVE! - PROFESSOR JT

To Shack Up or Not To Shack Up? Is Living Together BEFORE MARRIAGE A Good or Bad Thing?

Good Morning Everyone! It's the 15th, which means it BILL DAY! You want to see money go in and out of your account faster than EVER, just pay those BILLS! I promise, the World needs 1 month out of the year where you just get a BILL BREAK! I'm telling you, the World would be a better place! LOL! I pray that everyone has a wonderful day as HUMP DAY is here! Halfway through the week and Halfway to the WEEKEND! Everyone have a wonderful day!

Back in the day, the Old Church Mothers use to get on you if they found out you were SHACKIN' with someone! What is SHACKIN' JT? Living with someone who you were dating before marriage. You two may not even be thinking about marriage, you may just be with each other and seeing where it goes from there. There are some benefits and some downfalls to shacking up. A great benefit is splitting up those BILLS! You pay THIS...& I'll pay that! MAN OH MAN! You feel GOOD having a little extra money left over at the end of every month. Plus, you have some company! Someone to watch some games with, go places with, enjoy life with. The Downfalls are you have someone consistently in your SPACE! It's even harder if you both get into an argument and you're not talking for a period of time. Then that space turns REAL SMALL when you have to share it with someone you are upset with. So the question is, is Shacking up a REALLY GOOD IDEA or was those Old Church Mothers right and it just doesn't lead to anything good at all?

I had the opportunity to live with someone and I liked it to some points but to other points it did bother me a bit. Someone always in your space when you're use to living alone is tough. Also, the not talking to one another and all you want to be is in your house, but you don't want to be around them so you try to stay out of your house, yeah, that's hard. You want one room, but it seems like who you are living with is taking over all the rooms at one time. Then, two people coming together and you both have different living arrangements and styles and you try to find a happy medium; trust me, it gets tough folks! But to have someone there to laugh with is always a plus! Someone who may have dinner ready for you, house cleaned up, and having some money for you during the month to pay bills, that's a lovely thing. Even someone to go places with is great as well. Now, with me growing up in church, I'm not going to lie, it was hard knowing this wasn't my wife and she was living with me. But let me tell you something, when you need help financially, two people can truly be benefit to each other, even if it's temporary. I feel you have to do what works for you. 

A big thing in Shacking up that needs to be addressed is "WHAT ARE WE DOING?" Are we looking to get married one day? Is this for financial reasons for a while? There is a BIG DIFFERENCE between shacking up and having a roommate! Roommates have their own rooms. Shacking up, mostly you are sleeping in the same room! Many people have feelings about that, but when you have your own grown relationship, it's on you. NOW, I wouldn't be DEEP in a church, shacking up with someone, that's not right! If you want to live with someone and be talking to someone about living for Christ, you might as well get married! That's just so no one calls you out and tell you that you're living foul! And shacking up is different when you have kids and pets as well, especially if the other person doesn't have either living with them. You have to be able to weigh out those things and what needs to happen so you both can be comfortable. TRUST ME, you may meet someone and think they're great, until you live with them and they don't seem so great at all! I think Engaged People should live together, not necessarily while you are both dating. There are a lot of Christians that would not agree, but let me tell you, a lot of people would be saying NO to marriages before getting into them and divorcing if they truly knew how people lived before they lived with them. Can you handle how they cook, clean, live with you? That's something I feel should be learned during the engagement process. So be careful when it comes to Shacking Up! There are the good and bad things that may come with it, but at the end of the day, it can benefit you both in amazing ways, regardless if it becomes a long term situation or not! READ...SHARE...LOVE - PROFESSOR JT

To Go To Hollywood or Not To Go To Hollywood? Is The Entertainment Dream A REALITY?

Good Morning Everyone! Up to 80 degrees today here in Indy & I'm GLAD ABOUT IT! Hopefully the nice, warm temperatures are finally here to STAY! I mean, COME ON, it will be Memorial Day weekend NEXT WEEK! I'm excited to see what all the summer has in store! God Bless Everyone on today!

TONIGHT! Get Ready for The Professed Word Podcast with your Hosts, ME, Professor JT & "The Artistic Diva" Ms. Word! Tonight at 8pm EST we talk with Tallie Brunson and David "King" Orr from Alpha Dawg Ent. about Star Power: Careers In Entertainment. These gentlemen back in January 2012 started Alpha Dawg Entertainment and definitely go on Youtube to check out their projects and here them TONIGHT ON THEPROFESSEDWORD.COM

There use to be a day and time where kids wanted to go off to Hollywood and be a STAR! They wanted to be in the Soap Operas, be in the next sitcom, work with some of the greatest movie producers in the Entertainment Industry. There were also people that had the Big Apple Dreams of being a great dancer or singer on Broadway or in the other theaters in New York City. Now a days the Entertainment Industry has CHANGED! The dream of becoming a STAR...is becoming A REALITY TELEVISION STAR! No Real Talent Needed! Just either a banging body or bad attitude & before you know it, you can be on everyone's Red Carpets! Is this REALLY what the Entertainment Industry has turned into? No more Shows where you actually have to have some kind of acting or dancing skills, where people had to train professionally for years at schools just to get their feet in the door. NO! If you want to be a STAR TODAY, you can put ONE VIDEO on Youtube and BAM, you are FAMOUS! Is this where we are in the Entertainment game today?

Great Practice of a craft is still appreciated and none more appreciated than one who works on their Acting and Dancing Skills. They work with some of the best names in the Industry just to have a chance to be the best themselves one day. Actors and Dancers all come from different walks of life. Not everyone that goes to Hollywood or New York becomes a BIG STAR! Some created their own Production Companies and see where that could lead them too, even possibly getting nominated for awards for their projects, which is meaningful in one's Entertainment Career. There are so many ways that a person can "MAKE IT" in the Entertainment Game today it's crazy! Just getting discovered from the right person at the right time can make a person an Over Night Sensation. What it is about is STAYING CONSISTENT in the Game! When people realize that they're not the ONLY pretty face or talented person in the World, they give up on themselves and their Entertainment Dreams. That's not the time to give up, that's the time to dig deep, work harder, and connect with those people who are working hard & making it and figure out how YOU can make it! For some people the dream of making it in Entertainment happens FASTER than it does with others, but it's worth it in the end to go for your dreams and to be able to say "I tried it and I'll never regret going for my Entertainment Dreams!" You have to take some strides, some chances, and be a little crazy! But if that is what you want to do DEEP DOWN, you have to work hard and believe big and know that anything is possible! 

READ...SHARE...LOVE! - PROFESSOR JT

THE UPGRADE FACTOR: We Make Them Better, But Do They Make US BETTER OR BITTER?

Good Morning Everyone! Back in the saddle and I'm excited about another week! LORD, you ever need a weekend to recover...FROM THE WEEKEND! A little TIRED, but the weekend was AMAZING! Glad some Good Weather is on the way and I feel deep down some GOOD NEWS is on the way for God's People! I pray that everyone has a wonderful week and we are ROLLIN' in this middle of May. REMEMBER to check out THEPROFESSEDWORD.COM on tomorrow as we discuss the Entertainment Industry and is it REALLY worth shooting for those Hollywood Dreams? You don't want to miss it at 8PM EST!

Tell me if you have been here before...You meet someone who has POTENTIAL to be great. You start to date them and help them on some things and they start becoming more like the person not only that you would like them to be, but more like the person you KNOW they can be. You're not trying to CHANGE THEM, just allow them to see how special that they are. Build their confidence a little bit, show them the finer things, allow them to see life in a different light. You do like Beyonce says "Introduce them to SOME NEW THINGS!" You basically start to UPGRADE a person. Everything is all good for a while. You are feeling them, they are feeling you and enjoying their new life UNTIL they start FEELING THEMSELVES! They may start to get attention from other people, they start to look at themselves in the mirror and say "DANG, I AM LOOKIN' PRETTY GOOD!" They start to get some SWAG & the little confidence that they have, turns to arrogance. Before you know it, they have forgotten all about YOU & are going straight CRAZY! So now you have spent time building up someone's self esteem, money, and lifestyle, all for them to get up and leave you upset, broke, and sometimes bitter and disrespected. They totally disregard the fact that when you both met they started from the BOTTOM and now since they are HERE, they aren't even feeling you anymore! Today we talk about the UPGRADE FACTOR and how many of us have been here and is it worth TURNING UP someone to a different and better lifestyle?

A lot of people want bigger and better for their lives, but they never have had anyone introduce them to anything different. We all have been there before. Some of us never knew about CULTURE THINGS, like Museums, Plays, Classical Music, until someone came along and introduced us to that life. It can be like that in dating. We see someone  and we feel with just a few TWEAKS, maybe they can be a pretty amazing mate. Not saying they aren't amazing at first, but they just need a little HELP! We help them in their finances, buy them some different clothes, show them how to groom & take care of themselves body and living wise. Introduce them to church, maybe even take them from just getting into the club to VIP. These people can be appreciative of all of this at first, but the majority of the time, they get all that they can get from you and DIP ON US! How many of us are still paying bills from a relationship where we tried to help someone we THOUGHT loved us MAKE IT, only to see them get what they needed out of us to leave us trying to pay their bills? We try not to let the situation make us BITTER, but it HURTS! We were trying to help THEM OUT only for them to take all that we did for them and watch someone else rep the benefits of our work. It's so WILD because they will still be going to the places we showed them and hanging with the friends we introduced them too and act like they had been there, their whole lives!

It's all out of LOVE! We just care and want to see people live to their fullest potential! We do it because we see how great a person can be and we know with letting them see how special that they are and can become, we work with them to help them get there. For a real person, it hurts to see them leave, but you never have no regrets in helping someone be better in life. Some of us may be paying for someone's school, past bills, and stuff may be on our credit right now, but know that God is going to bless you for blessing them. One day someone is going to appreciate all that you do for them. It's not about upgrading everyone, someone will and can be on your level. But it is about showing someone who they can be because you see greatness in them and they should be able to see so much greatness in themselves! 

READ...SHARE...LOVE! - PROFESSOR JT

A GREAT FRIDAY MESSAGE: TO ALL MOTHERS...KEEP ON GOING STRONG ON THIS MOTHER'S DAY WEEKEND!

Good Morning Everyone and a Happy Early Mother's Day To All The Mothers Out There! There is always something Special around Mother's Day Weekend that seems to swirl around the atmosphere! God gives Grace & Mercy to all Mothers, because they are bring His Children into the World! Have a Wonderful Weekend Everyone & God Bless all the College Graduates as well! May is a Special Month for Great Memories and New Beginnings!

As a Man, you get a soft spot in your heart for all Mothers. Whether they are Married or Single, almost nothing is more Beautiful than seeing a Mother care for her child/children. The kisses in the morning, getting those jokers ready for school, church, and events. The cheering and chastising a Mother does for their child/children when they are doing good and when they are acting bad. A Real Mother knows when to build their child up when they're doing good and snatch that child up when they are doing bad. Mothers, no matter how old your child/children gets, do not ever be afraid to tell them what is right or wrong! They learn from you FIRST and learn from you THE BEST! It get HARD for Mothers, especially the ones that have to raise children all by themselves. If Real Mothers had to put into words the things they had to do just to put food on the table or clothes on the backs of their child/children, some people may turn their noses up at them. But a Mother will do whatever she has to do to take care of her child/children. Don't you EVER judge or put you mouth on a Woman who does what she has to do for her kids. God Blesses Mothers in a Special way, everyday to make sure that they have what they need to take care of His children. Today I wanted to write a Special message to Mothers...hang in there, keep on going strong, God will always make a way for you and your family!

Psalms 139: 13 & 14 says "For you created my inner most being; you knit me together in my Mother's womb." "I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well." God did not make one child for a Mother by mistake. No matter how a child comes into the World, it's Beautiful. We always have to pray for the victims of Rape who get pregnant, but that child still can be a success in the World that we live in. Mothers, keep on doing what you need to do to help your children be great. Lord help in Jesus Name all these kids who have the audacity to put their mouths on their Mothers. That is heartbreaking to anyone to see a disrespectful kid talking bad and back to a Mother that sacrifices so much to their child/children. Fathers, even if that is your Babies Mother & you all do not get along, take the time to say "Happy Mother's Day" because your seed would not be here without them. It's time to celebrate our Mothers even the more. All the work that they put in for their child/children is BEAUTIFUL and lets continue to love on them and keep them built up and motivated. God Bless all Mothers on this Mother's Day Weekend! Know that Professor JT loves you all and Great Things are in store for you all in Jesus Name! 

READ...SHARE...LOVE! - PROFESSOR JT

Cater To The Losers But Treat The Good Ones Like Dirt! Is This The World Of Dating?

Good Morning Everyone! We are rolling strong to the weekend! So much excitement in the air with Graduations, Mother's Day, and Spring/Outdoor Events Popping up all in May! I'm happy to see so many great things upcoming and know that God has some great things in store for you! God Bless Everyone on today get excited for what God has in store! PRAISE HIM IN ADVANCE!

It's interesting to see in the World of Dating the things that people say that they will work with and don't put up with at all in Dating. People say they want THIS, but in the end they end up settling for something totally the opposite of what they really want and desire. How many of us have friends who put up with the CRAZIEST STUFF in relationships? Get talked about, cheated on, cursed out, beat on? Then some how, they find a reason to stay with that person! After a while, they finally get away from the craziness and possibly get exactly what they want, deserve, and always have been desiring & deserving of. Then for some reason, they break up with them over the littlest thing! This person is REALLY good to them and you even wonder WHAT IS WRONG WITH THEM?? You put up with THAT from them, and they treated you like Dirt! Catered to them, hung with them through their badness and had to break your neck just to get away from them! Then you have a GOOD ONE who loves you in all of your mess & distress and is willing to help you work through your issues & you diss them because of what, because they said or do the littlest thing wrong? 

You wonder, is this how Dating really is?

It's funny how some people say they do not like drama, but it's almost like if they do not have any drama in their relationship, the relationship is boring or not interesting to them. So it's like they find a way to CREATE DRAMA in the relationship. "Stable" & "Peaceful" are words that seem like they do not fit into the traditional relationship today. "Rachet" & "Drama" seem to fit in more. BUT WHY? Why can't people realize that MESS & DRAMA does not equal love? You'll have people who want to live a certain way and can't do it because of who they are with. Then they get someone who wants to live the way they want and they FIND something wrong with them? A lot of people struggle with the fact of stuff being GOOD at times when they are so use to things being SO BAD! You want a Church Going Mate! You pull teeth to get people you date to go to church with you, trying to work with them, begging them, PLEASE GO TO CHURCH WITH ME? Then you FINALLY get someone who loves God & forget going to church with you, they BEAT YOU THERE & you RUN FROM THEM? You want someone Educated because you're Educated! You actually WORK WITH PEOPLE to try to help them get their degrees and diplomas and they are not even trying to hear what you are saying. Then you get someone who is Educated & you walk away from them because they seem TOO SMART? I'm telling you folks, this stuff happens more than people realize!

I guess the most frustrating thing is seeing how Good People get screwed so many times for NOTHING! Some people can not help for having a big heart and wanting to see people happy. Some people just spend too much time catering to the wrong people. If a person is not willing to give you 100%, while you are giving them 100%, then you just may have to change who you are giving 100% too! This breaks people's trust for others because now they feel that if I give my all to this person, even though they may be good, they may end up treating me like the last person. We have to see the early signs & can't deny them. A person can not hide who they are for very long. You can tell if a person is REALLY going to be into you & how they are going to be in the relationship within the first few months. Are they controlling, lazy, nasty, dirty, liars OR are they kind, caring, hardworking, nurturing, sensitive, loving? Just really look at who you have and ask yourself "Are they WORTH all that I'm putting into them?" Sometimes you have someone who is really good to you that you may not be putting ENOUGH of your time into. Don't make Love Excuses for people who do not LOVE YOU! If they are not working hard for you & catering to you, why are you putting up with that person? THEN, if you have someone pulling out all the stops for you, why would you run from them? Love has no fear, but love is not DUMB EITHER! You know that you deserve the very best from love! Receive the good love & get rid of the bad love! Know that you deserve the love of a Good Person and don't take it for Granted, it doesn't come our way often! READ...SHARE...LOVE! PROFESSOR JT

My Top 5 "They're Only FINE because they're CELEBS" FEMALE CELEBRITIES LIST!

Good Morning Everyone! I thank the LORD for the great things He is doing in my life! SHOUT OUT to The Black Man Can Awards as I have been nominated as a FINALIST in the Higher Education Division for the Award! GOD IS AWESOME & He gets all the GLORY! Keep a look out for the opening up of voting at BlackCelebrityGiving.com. on Thursday, May 16th! I appreciate all your votes and support and I'll keep you updated on all the information. Everyone have a wonderful day!

So, I got into it a little bit with one of my guys about a certain celebrity (and she will be listed in this list by the way) who he thinks is SO FINE, but I know the TRUTH! Money can make people LOOK REALLY GOOD! If this celebrity along with others did not have ANY MONEY, they would be just like US! Walking on the street, everyday people, and people wouldn't be SWEATING THEM! But the fact that they have MONEY, FAME, & STATUS & that they can INVEST into their looks; The best hair, makeup, clothes, they can PAY TO LOOK AMAZING! Now we know how this works for DUDES! Ya'll ladies think this celeb looks good & that celeb looks good, when you need to all tell the TRUTH, that dude looks a MESS & if he didn't have any money, you wouldn't give that many a second look or thought! Certain Men as SEX SYMBOLS! YOU KNOW THAT DUDE IS UGLY! So, I'm going to throw My Top 5 "Money Did You Wonders" Female Celebrity Picks where if they didn't have ANY MONEY, they would just be another PLAN JANE OR TRIPPIN' KESHA ON THE STREET!

1. Kelly Rowland (Former Destiny Child Member)

  

2. Kerry Washington (Scandal, Django)

3. Tasha Smith (Why Did I Get Married)

  

4. Zoe Saldana (The Words, Colombiana)

  

5. Keshia Knight Pulliam (The Cosby Show's Rudy)

   

NOW! I hear all of ya'll readers grumbling! OH JT, how can you SAY THAT! What about WHITE CELEBS? Well, there is only enough room for these right now OK! I'm not bashing these women, they are all GORGEOUS, no lie! But I KNOW, if I saw one of these Women on the STREETS if they were not celebs, I would be like "Eh, she's aight!" LOL! I'm proud of all these Women for their success in the Entertainment Industry. I know though the HOURS that go into looking good and the money and the cost of everything being RIGHT just to get some of these Women on these Red Carpets & in front of the Cameras! Why do you think so many people want to be RICH & FAMOUS! GOOD LOOKS COST BABY! There is another CROP of Make Up Babies on the way, and I'm sure they'll be going through even more extremes to look their absolute BEST! DO YOU FOLKS! 

READ...SHARE...LOVE! PROFESSOR JT