Good Morning Everyone! It's still cold, but not AS COLD as yesterday, and I'll definitely take that! I hope that everyone has a wonderful morning & lets continue to get better in our lives in Jesus Name! This is a year that we can not stay the same as we were before! BETTER & GREATER ARE ON THE WAY!
I'm so Blessed to have Female Acquaintances that always put me in CHECK when I go on my MANRAIDS! What is a MANRAID JT? When I'm trying to make a point about Women as a MAN & they politely comment or tweet me & say WHOAAA JTSABI!! I appreciate that from them always! BUT, I HAVE to push this point here and give more REASONS!
I have seen it over, and over, and over again! The Tweets, Sub-Tweets, Side-Tweets, FB Status Updates, Text Messages, Phone Calls, Smoke Signals, SHOOT, the same message even comes from Carrier Pigeon! A WOMAN SAYING HOW SHE WANTS A GOOD MAN! The complaints about where a Woman lives and how the Men around them are TRASH! The tweets and messages of Stars that they feel are so Fine that they wish they could have, which we all know is NOT going to happen. On, and On, and On, everyday to FINALLY, A Good Man comes along! BUT...THERE'S A BUT why he just may not be GOOD ENOUGH! And that is where the problem lies. So why is it that Women say that they want a Good Man, when what they say that they may want is right in front of them, that MAN is NOT GOOD ENOUGH?
I have so many Good, Single Male Friends that always are amazed by the Female Friends, Acquaintances, & Play Little Sisters that I have! "DANG JT, WHO IS THAT!?!" What can I say, I love having Beautiful Company around me! I also LOVE playing Match Maker! I have a great one under my belt with my cousin who is married to the Woman of his DREAMS! I give all the Glory for that one! 5 years in a relationship and 5 years married is not too bad! But I knew EXACTLY what he wanted so hooking him up was EASY! I have some other female friends that I have tried to hook up with some of my male friends and it was like after 3 weeks, they HATED EACH OTHER! I'm not blaming it on either one of them, but she wanted a GOOD MAN, I provided her one, & well, lets just say, it just didn't work out.
What are you saying JT? Women say that they WANT A GOOD MAN all day long! BUT, every WOMAN has what they LIKE! There is nothing WRONG WITH THAT, but if you know what you want, you have to be a little more specific! There is nothing WRONG with being specific & picky! If you just like Light Skinned, Muscular Guys, THEN THAT IS JUST WHAT YOU LIKE! Most Women has a HABIT of dating the same type of guy! Then, they may GET A GOOD MAN, but since it's not the type of Man that they really like or are attracted too, it feels like something is missing in the relationship, and that's not fair to either person involved! Do not just get a GOOD MAN because you just FEEL he is GOOD ENOUGH! If that is not what you truly want deep down, then just BE HONEST! A Good Man can and will come your way!
So Ladies, do not JUST SAY that you want a GOOD MAN! You have GOOD MEN that check you out all day, everyday! Good Men approach you all day long and they are HAPPILY TURNED AWAY by you because they are not tall enough, not big enough, not cute enough, not confident enough, not enough money to you, not as out going that you want them to be, they just LOOK soft, lame, nerdy, or like they can not keep your interest in conversation or in the bedroom! BE SPECIFIC! Say it loud and proud what you want! I want a GOOD MAN WHO can cater to me, knows how to talk to a Woman, has a career, takes care of his kids, is tall, muscular built, can put it down in the bedroom, etc. etc. etc. Tell Jesus what you want because being too broad will make you frustrated! Just be honest with YOU & you'll have the Good Man that YOU WANT that can be Great for the type of Woman that YOU ARE! READ...SHARE...LOVE! - PROFESSOR JT
2 comments:
Ok, J.T I am going to have to agree with you a LITTLE on this one. Your post is on point mostly. I've seen it myself with a lot of the single females I know. So you won't get much of an argument from me on this one. I will say that, you still have to have some sort of chemistry or attraction if you will to the "GOOD MAN", so if that isn't there then I think that is what turns the women away. Again, this is my seeing it on the outside looking in and observing my girlfriends behavior.
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WHAT, NO "JT, this is some ...!" TODAY!! You know I had to read over it a few times just to make sure my eyes were not playing tricks on me! LOL! I'll take it when I can get it from Mrs. Renae! A Real Woman with some great Real Opinions that I respect very much!
I think at times, we all just ATTRACT certain types of people & sometimes, they just aren't all good! People that we have Chemistry with are drawn to us because of that Chemistry. Something inside of us DRAWS them to us. Men and Woman at times are not drawn to people who may not always be "GOOD"! Bad Girls a lot of times want Bad Boys! So if that is what a Woman wants, they she should just say so. What a Good Man may be to her, may not be the same GOOD as to another Woman. But as long as she is treated GOOD by that Man, that's all that matters! Thanks again Mrs. Renae! - Professor JT
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