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So, I have been noticing a SAD TREND when it comes to Black Women today, especially the Young Black Women of our World. These Cute, Little Teenie Boppers are NO WHERE PREPARED FOR MARRIAGE! They want to look cute, club, party, flirt with all they guys, send out Thirst Traps to get attention, but at the end of the day, want someone they can call their own. After the Lord BLESSES them with someone, IF He ever does, then they are screaming "PUT A RING ON IT!" SO, they have "THE SHOW!" The big wedding with all the bells, whistles, and people, and all of a sudden...REAL LIFE HITS THEM! They don't know how to COOK, CLEAN, BE RESPECTABLE & SUBMISSIVE TO A MAN! Some of these Young Girls don't know the difference between SAVING & SPENDING! They want to argue, fight. Do they know how to support a Man when he's down? Have home a peaceful place & not full of a lot of drama? The question is today, are Young Black Girls being prepared for that "WIFE LIFE?"
I blame the older Women, who not only are telling our Young Women HOW to be Wives. But lets be honest, some of them are struggling with a Trifflin' Man themselves and have for YEARS! You can't tell someone how to do something you haven't done successfully yourself. Is being a WIFE, even a GOAL for some of these Young Women. A lot of these Women are already Single Mothers 2-3 times over before they even THINK about "I want a Husband!" By that time, they are dealing with so much Baby Daddy Drama, no Man wants to come into that mess! We need to encourage our Young Black Women to keep their legs closed, THINK...REALLY THINK about "Do I see this Man as my Baby's Father?" Let me be HONEST LADIES, no Man wants to come into your MESS, it doesn't matter HOW CUTE YOU ARE! If you have children and are seeking to be married, those kids better be in line & you need to LEARN how to balance & cater to your Man. NO MAN COMES BEFORE YOUR KIDS! BUT, how Women get cheated on, is because what you don't do for your Man, some other Woman will. Women need to learn how to keep your Man's EYES ON YOU! Wear Sexy Outfits, constantly give your Man attention, compliments, & love! You need to SEX THAT MAN! MEN NEED THAT STUFF! If you're not doing it, some Woman is texting his phone & messaging him online saying how SHE WILL! So Young Ladies, GET YOUR MINDS RIGHT! If you want to be MARRIED, be prepared to be married. You better learn how to pray & cover your Man as well! Lets teach these Young Women how to be better prepared fpr marriage, or we're not going to have many successful, happy marriages anymore! READ...SHARE...LOVE! - PROFESSOR JT